Do you feel disgusted with how superficial they are?You don’t want to think about how you’re not doing enough to make yourself more attractive to more people. Whenever I challenge people who shame physical attraction, they always reveal they’re no better than the people they judge. A lot of shorter guys get angry at women who like tall men. We all prioritize certain values higher or lower on our list.The guys who have made contact have been people that I probably would not have dated normally, i.e., no steady job or just a little odd.The good news, Nicci, is that all of the answers can be derived from the same exact technique – flipping things over to consider the other person’s point of view.I have been online dating for about two months and it’s been so-so thus far. I’m 5’3″ and an hourglass-ish size 10, so while I’m not obese, I’m definitely not “athletic and toned.” I chose pictures that I think accurately show this.Anyway, at first I listed myself as “A few pounds extra” thinking it was an honest description.
Generally, men prefer women who are shorter than they are and women prefer men who are taller.
" It was difficult, but I learned not to be offended each time these questions arose. Yes, I was always, in pain (my back, shoulders, even hips).
" And 3) "Have you ever thought about getting them reduced?
Of course, this doesn’t mean shorter women can’t be tough and feisty.
There are still short women who are capable of keeping a man down, thanks to a karate or judo background.