Our sources say if Selena truly felt she needed to let Bella know (as a friend) that she and The Weeknd had a thing going on, she would have ... As for her situation with The Weeknd -- our Selena sources say the two started hanging out just before the holidays -- but weren't together for the celebrations.We're told the new couple isn't yet "that serious" ...And when they do and people find out, there's hell to pay. Their relationship was also fun for me because I got to get to know Rex better.The first rule of girl code is to never, ever, under any circumstances, date your best friend's ex. He became a close friend of mine, and it wasn't uncommon for the three of us to hang out.Relationships end and people breakup Better chemistry and connection. As corny and cliche as it sounds, a strong connection and solid chemistry doesn’t lie – even if it is with your ex’s friend. If the fire between you and your ex’s bestie puts forest fires to shame, that’s a clear sign the relationship is a go. Being in a boring relationship not only can make you feel stagnant but it is also the ultimate mood killer.But when you find a partner who shares the same interests and enjoys your kind of fun, it feels like you hit the jackpot. Go cash in your winnings in the form of your ex’s friend. If your ex’s friend adds more value to your life than your ex (or any other past beau), that’s the relationship to explore.It’s hard finding someone who supports you and your journey.
PLUS: The Time My Ex Boyfriend Stalked Me You haven’t had any contact with your ex for an extended period of time. If you and your ex exchange quick birthday/holiday messages over Facebook, moving forward with a “mutual friend” shouldn’t be a problem. You aren’t asking them for permission, you are simply letting them know that you are dating someone new who just so happens to be their friend.
But before you issue me a major dating foul, remember that everything happens for a reason.
Dating your ex’s friend sounds like a major violation of girl/guy code.
the reason's pretty simple -- she says they weren't that close.
Sources close to Selena say if Bella truly feels betrayed by her new fling, it comes without merit.