Monica O'Neal, licensed clinical psychologist and relationship expert, tells Buzz Feed Life.
It's important to get a sense of that person's day-to-day life. Or does he tend to take a nap after he comes home from the office?
If you take out the wacky improv comedy context, what you end up with are just incredibly insightful rules for amazing conversations.
Actually, the more you speak to someone the more specific and detailed you can get.
When you haven't spoken to someone in a while, even if they're a good friend, your conversation tends to be very general at first, as you try to summarize huge amounts of information: "So what have you been up to? I got promoted to Regional Manager and Natasha is pregnant with our second child." When you talk to someone often they're already familiar with the nitty gritty details of your life, so you can update them on small future developments as they come up.
That’s the real gatekeeper that you have to pass for a girl to be attracted to you.
He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market, and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. Namely, creating a fun and exciting interaction that just makes girls enjoy talking to you.