It’s been a great night of drinks, dinner, and conversation, but the evening is coming to a close as the bill is finally brought to the table.
Remember that he's already your friend, so there's a whole lot that he likes about you, Massa says. That means no crazy makeup or boob shirts when he's used to seeing you casual.Be respectful of how you treat him, and be respectful of his wallet if he is paying.If you respect him, he will respect you, and hopefully that will lead to a long and happy relationship together, lasting much longer than a few dinner dates!When you hear a song you think a guy would like, send it to him on Spotify. Next time you're buying concert tickets for a band you love, buy two—and don't immediately decide who gets to be your plus-one. The key is getting the guy out of a familiar context. That's what happened to one guy Massa interviewed who met his now-fiancé on a volleyball team.For once, don't jam your calendar with plans a season in advance. Only when they finally went out to dinner together did they both realize their connection.Whether it's someone you're meeting online or it's someone your friends know, aim to drop the things you know about them and start fresh.